The Storm - Morning/Afternoon October 4th

The following morning, mom and I headed to Beauty Oasis to get our nails done. Grandma tagged along too, even though she's not a woman that enjoys getting her nails done. So grandma sat in a nearby hairdrying chair while mom and I hopped into a massage chair to begin soaking our feet.

Mom opted on a lavender shade for both her toes and fingers. She is a huge fan of purple. Not only was her mother of the bride dress to be purple the following day, but she was wearing purple jeans with a purplish plaid button down while sitting and having her nails done. Haha!

I decided for a more natural look. I picked out a pinkish-nude color for my toes and settled on a french gel manicure look for my nails. I RARELY get my nails done, so I didn't even know what a french gel manicure was! So this was something the nail artist recommended to me. So I trusted her. All I had really specified to her was "something clear".

It was a nice, relaxing hour. Grandma promptly fell asleep in the hairdrying chair. And the ladies at Beauty Oasis were very friendly and conversational... even though I'm pretty sure my mom rarely understood them. Their Korean accents were pretty thick. Haha! We couldn't have been happier with how our mani/pedis turned out though!

Afterwards, my mom and grandma crossed the street to meet my uncle and granddad at O'Malley's. And I walked further up Main St. to Hennessey's so I could pop in and say hi to James' family. Their flight had landed while I was getting my nails done. They were enjoying a discounted breakfast courtesy Pacific Inn since their room wasn't quite ready. Here, I met my niece Cecelia for the first time! She was born back in May.

I decided it would be nice to eat breakfast with them as well. But first, I needed to head back to the hotel to pick up my dad. I'd agreed to meet him at 10:30 at his room. And since he doesn't use a cell phone, I wasn't able to update him on what everyone was up to and have him just meet us there.

By the time my dad and I got back to Hennessey's, James' family was finishing up. I forget: when you have small kids, you don't have the luxury of a leisurely breakfast. Lol. But no matter. This gave me some more 1 on 1 time with my dad.

Afterwards, Dee headed out on his own again and I met up with James and his dad back at O'Malley's to watch another Pirates/Cardinals game.

I had intended my uncle and granddad (big Cardinals fans), mom and grandma to be there along with Jim, James (big Pirates fans), and me, but there was a misunderstanding. It ended up being just the 3 of us. 

The 4 of them, minus my uncle, made it out after the game instead and we had a pleasant lunch on the patio of O'Malley's.

We then headed back to the hotel again, nothing in particular planned til the rehearsal dinner that evening. My nephew Jameson decided it was a good time to take a dip in the pool. James, Jim, and I thought so too.

Norm, my mom, Dee, Gretchen, and later Keely and Cece joined us poolside. We chatted and enjoyed a few beers together.

With about 2 hours left til the rehearsal dinner and exhaustion settling in for all of us, we all headed back to our respective hotel rooms to try and grab naps.

We would be heading back to Main St. to eat dinner at Walt's Wharf at 7:30.

To be continued...

Calm Before The Storm - October 1st, 2nd, and 3rd

Tuesday and Wednesday continued the relaxing trend. Mom, James, and I continued mainly just to watch movies at the apartment. (I introduced mom to Orange Is The New Black. She has a striking resemblance to Kate Mulgrew and it's hard for me not to think of my mom anytime Red has a scene in that show!) But we did head out to run a few errands too.

During the day, Matt the best man started texting us back and forth to try and figure out what his wedding outfit should be. James and I had given him very general guidelines on his outfit: Tan pants and a shirt in the same color family as the matron of honor's seafoam colored dress (Pastel purple, yellow, blue... didn't matter to us). We were surprised that Matt was a little pickier than we expected him to be. He wanted to make sure the khakis were the same shade as James', that the shirt didn't clash with the pants, and that the shirt was bright enough, etc. Lol.

We all settled on that teal shirt you see in the picture.

Tuesday night we headed out to the 3rd Street Promenade to help James finish up some wedding shopping at J. Crew. He didn't have a shirt for the wedding either. Haha! But luckily we had one of the employees help us out and found James a great shirt/tie combo. We also had J Crew send Matt a pair of khakis that would match James'.

We then picked up some stationary for a handful of thank you notes I realized I needed to write before the wedding.

Unfortunately we left the Promenade shoeless. James still needed his wedding shoes , I needed some good sturdy (and waterproof) walking shoes for our Irish honeymoon. So we decided we'd need to head to the mall the next day. We left the Promenade, grabbed dinner at West 4th and Jane, and headed home. 

Luckily we found just the things we were looking for at Westside Pavilion. James found his shoes, I found my shoes, and I also picked up more stationary as I realized there were more thank you notes I needed to write. I had COMPLETELY forgotten to give the casting directors at Central Casting a heads up on my upcoming nuptials and honeymoon. They were gonna wonder where I've been for an entire month!

So my Wednesday evening wasn't QUITE as relaxing unfortunately. I had to hand write and address 18 thank you notes that night I thanked them for all the work they've given me so far this episodic season, informed them of the wedding, and told them I'd be back and ready to work by November. KILLER writer's cramp kicked in about half way through, but I pushed through and finished. GLAD it's done. 

Thursday I thought was gonna be a super packed, kind of stressful day. My dad, uncle, AND grandparents were scheduled to arrive this day. But Thursday ended up being pretty relaxing too!

I took a run in the morning to clear my head. At noon we packed up the car and headed down to LAX to pick up my dad. Then we continued down the 405 to Seal Beach to check into the Pacific Inn. It was a fairly uncomfortable drive. We had to fit 4 suitcases, 4 people, and all the wedding stuff in my little Honda while trying not to wrinkle anything. Mom and I were holding stuff in our laps in the backseat...but we somehow managed!

Who should be pulling into the hotel parking lot the exact same time as us but my uncle Norman! His flight had also landed around noon-ish, but in Orange County. And he decided to rent a car for the weekend and drive himself up to Seal Beach. The timing couldn't have been more perfect!

The 5 of us walked over to Main St. and ate lunch together (Beachwood!),

got settled into our rooms a bit (watched some of the Cardinals/Pirates game),

then I headed out solo with my dad. Thursday afternoon was the ONLY chance for alone time I would have with him.

So we headed over to nearby Belmont Shore in Long Beach and took a stroll together. While we were out I managed to squeeze in a few last minute errands. I needed to pick up a few thank you gifts and drop off a few decorative things at the reception site. My dad got a chance to drop into one of his favorite cigar shops. We also grabbed some Starbucks. 

After about an hour, we headed back to the hotel. Dee was pretty jet lagged and needed to turn in early. Back at the hotel, my mom and uncle were taking it easy also. So James and I headed back to our hotel room to relax too.

FYI, James and I were in the admiral suite, which happened to be room #323. 3/23 is my birthday so I took that as a good omen. :)

We headed back out at 8 to meet with our officiant Alan.

The meeting with Alan was short and sweet. We just needed to do a talk through of how the ceremony would go since there was no rehearsal. So James and I definitely had a few questions, like where everyone would be standing and what the hell we were supposed to do with the rings. We also talked a bit more about the vows. We decided it might be nice to inject a few humorous/nerdy bits after all. So Alan took care of that for us and we were on our way. 

Since Norman and my mom had graciously agreed to pick up my grandparents at the airport that evening (their flight got in around 10:30 that night), that allowed James and me to have one last date night as singles, just the two of us.

We settled on Simmzy's, one of our favorite spots when we lived in Long Beach. And if you must know, our last meal together as bachelor and bachelorette was the chili verde mac and cheese. We really enjoyed ourseves I'm glad we had this alone time. :)

Back at the hotel, we decided to stay up a bit longer and say hi to my grandparents once they arrived. They both seemed pretty energetic considering it was nearly 2 am in the time zone they flew in from! I think they were just excited to see everybody. :)

James' family would be arriving early the next day. Also, I had an appointment for a mani/pedi the next morning. So we both headed straight to bed.

To be continued...

**Louisa**

Where did the week go?!

So guess what... I'M MARRIED!!!

I was warned that this would happen. The closer you get to a wedding, time would pass at triple the pace. So all my grand plans of blogging up until the day of the wedding got thrown out the window VERY quickly. There was just too much going on. I didn't even have time to LOOK at my computer, much less sit down to write a blog on it.

I AM going to try to recount as much as I can though while everything is still fresh on my mind. What I may try to do is write it all down in a notebook, then type it in when I'm back from the honeymoon. Because I DO want to try to disconnect from the internet as much as possible during the trip. But at the same time, I don't want to start losing memories from wedding week.

So stay tuned for that! Come late October there will hopefully be a flood of blogs about the wedding, and hopefully a few about the honeymoon too.

Tomorrow we leave for Dublin for our 10 day Irish honeymoon! See ya when we get back!


**Louisa**

T-Minus 4 Days Update!

Unlike in my last entry, I am very pleased to say I have NOT been running around like a madwoman over the past week and a half. All the errands I've been running have been minor. It's mainly crossing Ts and dotting Is, finalizing time schedules and payments with all our vendors, etc. 

Wednesday was my last day of work until the wedding and honeymoon are over. And I DID end up having to turn down a job. But I was 100% definite that I did NOT want to accept any work the week before the wedding. I've been trying my hardest to just sit back, relax, and enjoy my free time. Some days I've succeeded in doing this and some days I have not. Haha!

FLOWERS

My paper flowers from Etsy arrived last week! They were made by Dana of Dana's Paper Flowers. They turned out fantastic! They are even more beautiful in person than on the website!

DRESS

Went to a final fitting for my wedding dress and picked it up yesterday after it had been steamed and cleaned. Linda (the tailor) gave me a big hug, wished me a blessed wedding, and sent me on my way! (Again, the alterations place I used was R & L Tailoring.)

MARRIAGE LICENSE

We were in and out of the Old Orange County Courthouse in 10 minutes, license in hand. The people working here are incredibly efficient!

RECEPTION WALK THROUGH

Met with Greg and Lexi, event coordinators at our reception site (Tantalum), and did a final walk and talk through. I also found out that Greg and Lexi themselves will be the servers on the big day. Nice!

HOTEL ISSUES: RESOLVED!

My wish of last minute hotel cancellations came true! Both the best man and matron of honor were able to get rooms at Pacific Inn Friday night before the wedding!

DOUBLE BACHELORETTE

The first celebration happened Thursday night with my girls Lindsey and April. Lindsey and I took a nice long exercise walk to Santa Monica. Midway, we stopped at West 4th and Jane for some Oktoberfest beer and brats. Then we walked back to my place, met up with April, and continued the beer and food fest!

Yes, this was the FIRST alcoholic beverage I had consumed in nearly 2 months. Taking that first sip of beer after so long almost brought a tear to my eye... SO amazing. 

Saturday night, Sophie and Pam drove up to LA for bachelorette part 2! Our original plan had been dinner and drinks on the 3rd Street Promenade. But after driving around Santa Monica and finding nothing but full parking lots (Note to self: NEVER take a car out to Santa Monica Saturday night. You'll be sorry.), we abandoned that plan in favor of something a little more chill. We settled on a great little restaurant called Nook that is just down the street from my apartment. And afterwards, we did some dancing at Mom's Bar, a great dive that is only a block from my place. It was a great night!

*gasp*

I know what you're thinking. Where's the male strippers? Where's the debauchery?!?!

Meh.

While I sometimes feel like getting crazy, that's not usually my party style. I'm a low key gal. So the best parties for me are also low key. Meaning both parties were PERFECT. My friends know me so well.

Sophie, Pam, Lindsey April... you're the best. :)

That's all the updates for now!

We had originally planned to do a meeting with our officiant down in Long Beach on Friday. But we postponed it when we realized we'd be in Long Beach anyway starting Thursday. So we save ourselves a commute! We'll just meet with Alan on Thursday. 

My mom arrived Sunday night. Luckily she's totally fine with my wanting to do nothing the next few days. We've basically just been sitting around watching movies all day!

It's the calm before the storm. Right now I'm just enjoying the calm...

**Louisa**